Mumbai: Actor Aadesh Chaudhary, known for his work in Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai, believes the growing popularity of reality television comes from audiences wanting to see the person behind the celebrity. With shows such as Bigg Boss, Khatron Ke Khiladi, Roadies, Lock Upp and Rise and Fall continuing to attract attention, Aadesh feels the format has evolved beyond mere entertainment and has become a way for viewers to connect with celebrities on a more personal level.
“I think it’s beautiful that people invest their time and emotion. It shows the power of connection. Reality shows work because people want to see the real person behind the character. In fiction, you love my character, but in reality shows, you get to know me, my fears, my strength and my real reactions. Shows like Bigg Boss, Khatron Ke Khiladi and Roadies have stayed because they test you as a human, not just as an actor. And yes, this wave is here to stay because audiences today want authenticity. They don’t just want to watch a story, they want to feel part of it,” he says.
Addressing the perception that reality shows can be a shortcut to fame or a way for celebrities to revive their careers, Aadesh believes the format comes with both opportunities and challenges. “I won’t call it a shortcut. I would call it a double-edged sword. Yes, it gives you massive visibility in two to three months that even a daily soap might not give you in a year. But that visibility comes at a cost, you are completely exposed. You can’t hide behind a script. If you are desperate, it will show. If you are fake, it will show,” he says.
He adds, “For some, it’s a resurrection, for some it’s a launchpad, but it can only give you attention. What you do after that attention is what matters. Fame that comes overnight can also go overnight. Real sustenance still comes from work, discipline and talent. A reality show can open the door, but you have to have the capability to stay inside the room.” Talking about the distinction between being an actor and becoming a star, Aadesh says he sees both as different aspects of the entertainment industry. “Absolutely, and it should exist. A star is about aura, fan following, box office and presence. An actor is about craft, honesty and transformation. A star can pull people to the theatre, but an actor makes them stay and feel,” he says.
“I have always wanted to be an actor first. Stardom is a byproduct of consistent good work and how you conduct yourself. In the long run, only acting saves you. Stardom without craft is very hollow and short-lived. My aim is to be an actor who is respected, and if stardom comes with it, it’s a blessing,” he adds. Aadesh also reflects on how social media has changed the way audiences perceive Bollywood actors and celebrities. According to him, the mystery that once surrounded stars has significantly reduced in the age of constant digital access.
“Earlier, mystery was magic. You would see your favourite star only on the big screen, and that created a huge aura. Today, social media has broken that wall. We are in everyone’s bedroom, on their phones 24/7,” he says.The actor believes celebrities should maintain a balance between being accessible to their fans and protecting their private lives. “I feel there should be a balance. As actors, we need to be accessible because fans love that connection, but we should also protect some mystery. Not everything needs to be posted. Your work, your thoughts and your craft should be shared, but your personal soul should still be private,” he says.
“Aura is not created by hiding; it’s created by dignity and by what you don’t show. If you are always available, you are no longer special,” Aadesh concludes.
